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THE
RELATIONSHIP
COMMUNICATION
BETWEEN
ADOLESCENTS AND PARENTS AND PEER GROUP WITH
PREMARITAL SEXUAL BEHAVIOR OF ADOLESCENT
Rahmadini Faricha Hakim.
Firdawati 2.
Lisma Evareny 3 1,2,3 S1 Midwifery Study Program FK UNAND.
Jln.
Niaga no.
56 Kota Padang, 25127.
Indonesia ARTICLE INFORMATION:
Article History:
Date received : March 2022
Date in revision : March 2022
Dates in Publications : April 2022
Keywords: Teenagers, premarital sexual
behavior, communication with parents, peer group
A B S T R A CT
Developments the current era of globalization makes people's lifestyles more free.
This can be seen from premarital sex behavior among teenagers.
Premarital sex behavior can cause depression, unwanted pregnancy and transmission of sexually transmitted diseases.
Many factors influence mainly from the family environment and community environment.
The purpose of this study was to determine the relationship of communication between adolescents and parents and peer group with premarital sexual behavior of adolescents.
This study uses analytical survey methods with Cross Sectional design.
The sample in this study were adolescents who met the inclusion and exclusion criteria totaling 87 people.
The sampling technique used is simple random sampling.
Data were analyzed by univariate to describe the frequency distribution of each of the variables studied and bivariate by using the chi-square test.
The results showed that there was a relationship between adolescent communication with parents .
= 0.
with premarital sex behavior and there was no statistical test on the variable peer group because in the peer group weakthere was a proportion of 0% teenagers who were at low risk.
There is a significant relationship between adolescent communication with parents and premarital sex behavior in adolescents.
For this reason parents can provide communication that educates teenagers on topics related to sexuality and openness to communication so parents can control and provide good direction to their INTRODUCTION Behavior is an individual's response or reaction (Kemendikbud, 2.
One of the social behaviors that exists among teenagers is dating behavior (Wati, 2.
According to Hawa in Ghani, et al .
, adolescents who are dating have a tendency to engage in sexual activity or premarital sexual behavior which is considered a form of proof of love between a pair of teenagers.
Premarital sex behavior is all behavior that is triggered by sexual desire that is carried out between two people of the opposite sex and same-sex * Author Correspondence Phone: 082116038327 E-mail: lismaevareny@gmail.
(Sarwono, 2.
Premarital sexual behavior has journal-aipkind.
a variety of forms, starting from a sense of attraction to the behavior of dating, making out and having sex (Sarwono, 2.
Premarital sex behavior has a negative impact adolescents, such as unwanted pregnancy (KTD), fear, anxiety, depression drug abuse and the spread of sexually transmitted diseases such as HIV / AIDS (Kusumaryani.
Based on data from the Center for Disease Control and Prevention .
, 41% of teenagers in America have had sexual intercourse and around 230,000 babies are born to teenagers aged 15-19 years.
Meanwhile, data from the National Survey of Family Growth .
, a comparison of the percentage of female adolescents with male adolescents who have sexual intercourse is 44% : 47%.
This percentage has increased with age with the age range of 15-19 years.
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Indonesia, the percentage of premarital sex performed by male adolescents is 3.
7% and has increased to 4.
While the percentage of premarital sex carried out by young women is 3% and has decreased to 0.
(Ministry of Health RI, 2.
Based on target of Sustainable Development Goals (SDG'.
No.
3, there are several points that have not succeeded in achieving the target, one of which the reduction of HIV/AIDS cases.
The incidence of HIV/AIDS in Indonesia in 2016 has increased from year, from 30,935 cases to 41,250 cases.
This increase also occurred in West Sumatra, from 243 cases to 396 cases (Kemenkes RI, 2.
The survey results show that the most common risk factors HIV transmission occur during adolescence, namely drug users with needles, homosexual and heterosexual .
emenkes RI, 2.
According to Noorozi, et al .
Factors that cause adolescents to premarital sex are parenting, economic, support, religious belief and self-awareness of sexual behavior and the interaction between teenagers and parents can inhibits communication so that teenagers tend not to be open with parents.
According to II.
Based on preliminary studies conducted by researchers on 10 teenagers, it was found that 8 out of 10 teenagers had premarital sex behavior, 6 teenagers had held hands, 1 teenager had mouth / lips kissing and 1 teenager had oral In addition, all teenagers communicate every day with their parents, but only 3 out of 10 teenagers have ever discussed about the development of sex .
with their parents, while 7 out of 10 teenagers say that premarital sexual behavior is due to friends.
This research
is conducting The Relationship
communication between Adolescents Parents and Peer Groups with Premarital Sex
METHODS
The method used in this research is analytical survey method with design cross sectional on 87 respondents conducted in February 2018 - September 2018.
The sampling technique used was proportional random sampling and simple random sampling using Microsoft Excel .
Data collection is done by giving questionnaires.
All data were processed using SPSS withtest chi-square with 95% confidence level = 0.
PO0,05 value is considered significant.
Shore and Shunu .
, there is relation between communication with parent with teen premarital sexual behavior.
Premarital sex behavior is also influenced by peer groups.
According to the Kemenkes RI , peer groups have an important role in adolescent behavior because adolescents are more likely to make peer groups as a and information According to research conducted by Putri.
Shaluhiyah and Prabamurti .
, there is a relationship between the role of adolescent premarital sexual
RESULTS
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Table 3.
1 Distribution of respondents characteristic frequency Characteristic (%) Age Middle Adolescent Late Adolescent Gender Male Female Residence Alone/boarding The Southeast Asian Journal of Midwifery Vol.
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house/rent With parents With aunt/grandmother/sib Total Gluing each other genitals Oral sex Table 3.
2 Frequency distribution of premarital sex behavior of premarital sex
Premarital sex
(%)
High risk Low risk Total Based on table 3.
2 it can be seen that premarital sex behavior in adolescents is 35, 6% are at risk.
Based on table 3.
4 the majority of respondents communicate non-quality communication with parents .
,8%) Table 3.
3 Overview of premarital sexual behavior of adolescents Table 3.
5 Overview of communication between adolescents and parents Ever Questions Dating Sending romance text Talking together Walking out of the house Holding hands Hugging Kissing on cheeks Kissing on lips Kissing on neck/breast Touching in sensitive areas .
round gentital or breas.
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Based on table 3.
3, 87
respondents in the category of premature premarital sexual behavior, all teenagers who had ever dated had chat together .
7%), sending romantic messages / words .
4%) and touching the lips with cheeks .
%), while in the category of premarital sex behavior at high risk, teenagers have had lip contact with the lips .
3%) and have touched / touched sensitive body parts f .
2%).
Table 3.
4 Communication frequency distribution of adolescents with parents of adolescents Communication beetwen adolescent (%) and parents Non quality Quality Total Based on table 3.
1 the majority of respondents are late adolescents with an age range of 17 years to 19 years namely 65 , 5%.
addition, the majority of respondents are male, which is 50.
6% and most respondents live with their parents, which is 90.
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of adolescents and the quality of communication between adolescents and parents.
Based on table 3.
5 above topics that are rarely discussed with parents are contraceptives .
0%), sex .
5%) and pregnancy / impregnation .
1%).
Relationship of Peer Group to Premarital Sexual Behavior Table 3.
8 Relationship between peer groups and premarital sexual behavior of teenagers Table 3.
6 Distribution of the frequency of Peer Group juvenile Peer group
Weak
Strong
Total
(%)
Based on table 3.
6 the majority of respondents have peer group a Based on table 3.
8 it is found that the percentage of adolescents who have premarital sex behavior is 100% heavy risk in adolescents with peer groups weak.
In this variable statistical tests cannot be done because in adolescents with peer groups weakobtained a percentage of 0% in premarital sex behavior is at low risk Communications Adolescents Parents with Premarital Sex Behavior Table Relationship adolescent communication with parents with premarital sex behavior adolescents IV.
Based on table 3.
7 it is found that the percentage of teenagers who have premarital sex behavior is at greater risk for adolescents by communicating with parents who are not qualified compared to communication with quality parents .
7%).
Comparison of this percentage is statistically significant .
<0.
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DISCUSSION
Premarital Sex Premarital sexual behavior is any behavior that is triggered by sexual desire carried out between two people of the opposite sex and same-sex.
Premarital sexual behavior has a variety of forms, starting from a sense of attraction to the behavior of dating, making out and having sex (Sarwono, 2.
In this study obtained from 87 respondents, adolescents who have premarital sex behavior are at low risk .
4%) and are at high risk .
6%).
In the category of premarital sex behavior, young people have the least risk of chatting with each other .
7%), sending messages / romantic words .
4%) and touching their lips with cheeks .
%), while in the category of severe risk adolescents most have ever had lip contact with the lips .
3%) and had touched / touched a sensitive body part .
2%).
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According to L'Engle .
, premarital sexual behavior is relatively mild, namely estimating, dating, fantasizing, holding hands, kissing dry and hugging.
Whereas the classified as heavy are wet kissing, touching sensitive body parts, petting, oral sex and intercourse.
This is manifested in dating behavior.
Dating is a natural thing to do for adolescents of that age It is evident from the results of this study that as many as 55 respondents .
2%) said that agreeing to date is a natural thing for teenagers to do.
Premarital sexual behavior is caused by the encouragement of libido sexuality, namely the influence of the hormones estrogen and testosterone (Sarwono, 2.
High sexual desire in teenagers is channeled in the form of sexual behavior.
Postponement of marriage age, taboo / prohibition, lack of information about sex, lack of sex education from parents and increasingly free relationships cause teenagers high sexual desire to behave in premarital sex.
This is also supported by technological advancements that make it easier for teens to access all information via the However, not all teenagers can filter the information into a positive thing for them so that many teenagers who have premarital sex behavior ranging from mild risk to end up leading to a heavier risk.
According to Envuladu, et al .
, peer pressure also affects adolescents to premarital sexual This is the reason most often expressed by teenagers involved in sexual They think that what their peer group has done is a necessity that they have to do and that is a sign that the teenager is mature.
Communication between youth and parents Communication is a process of delivering, processing and receiving information between individuals with the aim of providing information, entertaining and influencing persuasive .
ukendar, 2.
Communication between adolescents and parents is the communicators among family members (Wilis.
In this study, the content of the journal-aipkind.
discussion between adolescents and parents about dating behavior, sex development and other matters related to The results of this study indicate that in general respondents have poor quality communication with their parents 52 .
who have quality communication 35 .
2%).
The results of this study are similar with the research of Putri, et al .
2% of parents do not provide sex education to their children and 82.
5% of parents do not provide information about sexual behavior in their children.
The results of this study also show that the topics most frequently discussed with a frequency of <3 times / week are about boyfriends and dating .
9%), topics that are most often discussed with a frequency of 3 times / week that is about menstruation / wet dreams .
, 6%), and for topics that are most frequently discussed with a frequency of time> 3 times / week which is about boyfriends and dating and menstruation / wet dreams .
8%), while topics that are rarely discussed with parents are contraception .
, 0%).
In adolescents belonging to premarital sexual behavior at high risk, more than half had never communicated these topics including 21 respondents who had never communicated about boyfriends / dating .
7%),
communicated about menstruation / wet dreams .
6%), 23 respondents never .
2%), 30 respondents never communicated about pregnancy / impregnation, and 31 respondents never communicated about sex, contraception, sexually transmitted infections and HIV / AIDS .
%).
The results of this study are in line with the research conducted by Sekarrini .
that the majority of respondents communicate passively .
2%) and few who communicate actively .
8%), while the topics most frequently discussed are about boyfriends and dating.
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Peer group are positive peer group actions, imitated and carried out by respondents.
this study, the majority of respondents had peer group a strong 81 .
1%), while respondents with peer groups were weak 6 .
9%).
This result is in line with Qomarasari's research .
that the majority of respondents have peer groups strong.
6%).
According to Lestari .
, adolescents tend to choose peers to share feelings because they feel understood by their peers and have similar problems so that teenagers will feel comfortable sharing their stories with their It is evident from this study that 62.
of respondents said they agreed that the opinions of group friends had an important influence on the decisions that would be taken by respondents.
Quality communication between parents and adolescents can support the creation of good relationships and limitations in socializing.
However, in adolescents whose communication is not qualified, control in adolescents is lacking, causing teenagers to be too free in socializing and engaging in premarital sexual behavior with severe risk.
Communication Relationship of Teenagers with Parents with Premarital Sexual Results of bivariate analysis showed that of 87 respondents, respondents who did not communicate with quality with their parents had a high risk of premarital sex behavior, which 8%, while respondents who had high quality communication with their parents behaved premarital sex is a risky risk of 5.
Based on the results of bivariate analysis shows that there is a relationship between the communication between adolescents and parents with premarital sexual behavior .
= 0.
This research is in line with the research of Nia.
Wijayanti and Pujianti .
that the role of parents is very influential on adolescent sexual behavior and in line with the research of Shore and Shunu .
that supervision and monitoring of parents is needed to control adolescent sexual behavior.
This can be realized through good communication between children and parents which is focused on providing information and education about the dangers and risks of adolescent behavior so that it can increase adolescent awareness of themselves.
Based on the results of the study, the majority of teenagers consider dating is a natural Teenagers have a high libido desire due to the influence of estrogen on women and testosterone in men so that in adolescence it is journal-aipkind.
Family as the smallest social group in society is the first environment that children live (Ayu.
Children are raised and guided in a family led by parents.
Therefore, parents are the first educators of children who will shape and apply the values that exist before children socialize into the community, but most parents find it difficult to talk about sex with their This is due to parents' ignorance, attitude that is not open and still considers taboo to talk about sex (Sarwono, 2.
According to Hurlock .
parents who lack communication with children tend to give less attention to children, as a result children lack supervision and have too much freedom.
is very important for parents to talk about the topic of sexuality with their children.
The main key in this communication is openness.
With openness, teenagers and parents can understand each other about the issues discussed (Willis.
However, if there is no openness, it will encourage teenagers to seek information or other sources, considering that currently teenagers have a wide variety of access to get information related to sex (Kustanti in Susilawati, 2.
Relationship of Peer Group with Premarital Sexual Behavior Of 87 respondents as many as 81 .
respondents had peer group a strongwhile respondents with peer group weak6 .
9%).
The results of the bivariate analysis showed that peer group the weakhad a severe risk of 100%, while in peer group the stronghad a premarital risk of severe sexual behavior, amounting to 30.
In this variable statistical tests cannot be done because in The Southeast Asian Journal of Midwifery Vol.
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adolescents with peer groups weakobtained a percentage of 0% in premarital sex behavior is at low risk.
The majority of peer groups are often found in school settings.
According to Sarwono .
schools are secondary education For teenagers who attend school means that the teenager spends a third of his time every day in school.
To support the ability to socialize adolescents, the ability to get along is needed.
However, association can influence adolescent behavior (Gunarsa, 2.
The results of this bivariate analysis show that adolescents with peer groups weakhave a greater chance of being involved in premarital sex behavior than adolescents with peer groups This is in line with Qomarasari's .
study that adolescents with weak peer roles have 55 times greater likelihood of being compared to strong peer roles.
So that the weaker positive influence of peer groups will increase premarital sex behavior because peer groups have an important role in adolescent This research is also in line with Lestari's research, et al.
4% of high-risk adolescents have peers who support premarital sexual behavior.
Teenagers spend more than twice as much time with their peers so that teenagers are more likely to make peer groups as a place for discussion and information referral (Ministry of Health.
Republic of Indonesia, 2.
CONCLUSION
Premarital sexual behavior is any behavior that is triggered by sexual desire carried out the opposite sex and same sex.
Premarital sexual behavior has a variety of forms, starting from a sense of attraction to the behavior of dating, making out and having There is relationship between adolescent communication journal-aipkind.
parents with Severe premarital sexual behavior is generally carried out by adolescents with poor quality communication with their parents heavy-blooded behavior is generally carried out by adolescents with peer groups weak.
%).
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