El-Mashlahah Volume 12 No.
December 2022 El-Mashlahah Volume 12 No.
December 2022 ISSN: E-ISSN: 2622-8645.
P-ISSN: 2089-1970
DOI: 10.
23971/elma.
INTEGRATION OF TRADITION AND SHARIA:
Dowry and Dui Menre in the Marriage of the Bugis Community in Bone Regency Nur Avita.
Ahmad Rusyaid Idris.
Frina Oktalita State Islamic University of Sunan Kalijaga Yogyakarta.
Indonesia Al-Azhar University.
Egypt State Islamic University of Sunan Kalijaga Yogyakarta.
Indonesia nuravita26@gmail.
Received: 15-09-2022.
Accepted: 09-11-2022.
Published: 24-11-2022.
ABSTRACT
A Mahr (Dowr.
and dui menre become interesting phenomenon that occurs in the marriage practice of the Bugis community in Bone Regency.
The higher the social status of the prospective wife's family, the higher the dui menre.
When an agreement has been reached on the amount of dui menre, then the husband will give a dowry in the marriage contract.
Both of these things must be fulfilled as the requirement for When the husband does not fulfill the dui menre as previously agreed on the agreement, the marriage process might not occur.
The study aimed to integrate tradition and sharia in the marriage of the Bugis community in Bone Regency.
The research was empirical legal research with a socio-legal approach.
The study indicated that the dowry and dui menre in Bugis traditional marriages are an inseparable.
Here, the integration is dui menre as a pre-marital condition that must be fulfilled in the context of giving as a form of respect and assistance to the prospective wifeAos family.
There is no prohibition in Islam as long as there is an agreement between the two parties, and no violate the sharia principles.
Meanwhile, the dowry is also obligatory and carried out in the marriages of the people of the Bone regency.
Therefore, the dowry and dui menre in the marriage of the Bone community are following the tradition and sharia.
Keywords: Dowry.
Dui Menre.
Bugis tradition.
and Islamic Law.
ABSTRAK
Mahar dan dui menre menjadi suatu fenomena yang menarik yang terjadi dalam perkawinan masyarakat Bugis di Kabupaten Bone khususnya.
Semakin tinggi status sosial keluarga calon istri maka semakin tinggi juga dui menrenya.
Ketika telah terjadi kesepakatan terkait jumlah dui menre, maka dalam akad nikah calon suami akan memberikan mahar.
Kedua hal tersebut harus diwujudkan agar perkawinan dapat Ketika dui menre sebagai hal yang harus terlebih dulu diberikan tidak terwujud kesepakatan maka proses perkawinan tidak dapat diteruskan.
Tujuan penelitian ini yaitu untuk mengintegrasikan antara tradisi dan syariah dalam perkawinan masyarakat Bugis di Kabupaten Bone.
Penelitian ini merupakan penelitian hukum empiris dengan pendekatan sosio-legal.
Hasil penelitian ini menunjukan bahwa mahar dan dui menre dalam perkawinan adat Bugis adalah suatu kesatuan yang tidak dapat https://e-journal.
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Hal ini tidak ada larangan dalam Islam sepanjang ada kesepakatan antara kedua belah pihak dan tidak ada melanggar prinsip-prinsip Sementara mahar juga hukumnya wajib dan senantiasa tetap dilaksanakan dalam pernikahan masyarakat kabupaten Bone.
Oleh karena itu, mahar dan dui menre dalam perkawinan masyarakat Bone sejalan antara tradisi dan syariah.
Kata Kunci: Mahar.
Dui Menre.
Adat Bugis.
dan Hukum Islam.
Introduction Dowry is a mandatory gift as a sign of a man's sincerity to marry a woman.
The dowry will become the full property of the wife.
A person is free in determining the form and amount of the dowry because there is no limit in Islamic law on the dowry, but the dowry is sunnah to follow the ability of the prospective husband.
In Bone regency, an interesting phenomenon is related to dowry and dui menre in traditional Bugis marriages as inseparable because these two things have the same position in terms of obligations that must be fulfilled.
Although, in this case, the dui menre has more attention and is considered a requirement that determines the marriage process so that the amount of the dui menre is higher than the dowry.
The higher the social status of the women, the higher the dui menre gifted by the This phenomenon becomes a problem in society as usually, the marriage does not occur due to both parties does not reach an agreement on the dui menre.
3 The worse, the couple often eloped, which in Bugis society is called silariang.
Surely, the high amount of dui menre brings some benefits because it motivates young people to work hard in preparing for marriage.
Also, there is an assumption that a high amount of dui menre can reduce the divorce rate in the household because, of course, a husband will think several times to make second-marrying .
nother marriag.
considering the very high amount of dui menre.
However, the negative aspect of the dui Moh.
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ead to failed marriag.
when the men can not provide the requested amount of dui menre.
The story of a failed marriage is often heard and viral on social media.
Research on dui menre conducted by Sudirman,6 Iman Nur Hidayat,7 Hajra Yansa, et al.
,8 Syarifuddin,9 and Mahmud Huda10 examines the legal and sharia aspects.
In addition, other studies examine the communication aspect, such as Aisyah.
However, none of these studies have examined the integration between culture and sharia on the dui menre phenomenon.
The study aimed to integrate culture and sharia on dui menre in Bugis marriages in Bone Regency.
Method The research was empirical legal research.
12 The approach used Islamic law and the socio-legal.
13 The Bone Regency was selected as the research location because the acculturation of Bugis culture is still very strong, especially in the tradition of giving dowry and dui menre in the marriage tradition.
The data was obtained through interviews and direct observations with the community, traditional leaders, and religious leaders as well as Bugis scientists.
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December 2022 Finding and Discussion Dowry (Mah.
Mahar etymologically means dowry.
Meanwhile, in terms of terminology, dowry is a mandatory gift from a prospective husband to a prospective wife as the sincerity form of a prospective husband to create a sense of love for a wife to her prospective husband or a required gift for a prospective husband to his prospective wife, both the goods and services.
Scholars have differed on the issue of dowry.
Some of them argue that the dowry is given under the agreement between the bride and groom.
This opinion was expressed by Sufyan Ats-Tsauri.
Shafi'i.
Ahmad, and Isaac.
Meanwhile.
Imam Malik argues that the dowry should not be less than a quarter of a dinar.
While Aisyah explained "that the dowry given by the Prophet to his wives was twelve and a half uqiyah.
Law in Indonesia, especially in the KHI (Compilation of Islamic La.
in the dowry Chapter.
Article 30, that "the groom is obliged to pay a dowry to the prospective bride whose amount, form and type are agreed upon by both parties.
" Article 31, "The dowry is based on the simplicity and convenience recommended by Islamic teachings.
Article 34 contains two paragraphs: .
The obligation to give a dowry is not a pillar of .
the failure to mention the type and amount of the dowry in the marriage contract does not cause the marriage to be annulled.
Likewise, if the dowry is still owed, it does not reduce the validity of the marriage.
Also, article 37 states that "if there is a different opinion of the type and amount of the dowry, the settlement is submitted to the Religious Court.
Ay16 Dui Menre Dui menre or commonly referred to as spending money is a fee or money given by the manAos family to the womanAos family in the context of the implementation of the wedding party.
17 Giving dui menre is one of the first steps taken by men when they are Abd.
Rahman Ghazaly.
Fiqh Munakahat (Jakarta: Prenada Media Group, 2.
Abi Hasan Muslim Ibn Al-Hajjaj Al-Qusyairy An-Naisabury.
Sahih Muslim (Ibnu Jauzi Qahirah, n.
Kompilasi Hukum Islam (Bandung: Citra Umbara, 2.
Asmat Riady Lamallongeng.
Dinamika Perkawinan Adat Dalam Masyarakat Bugis Bone (Bone:
Dinas Kebudayaan dan Pariwisata, 2.
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18 Dui menre is a binding condition for the marriage to occur or not.
The prospective bride and her parents must pay for all matters related to the wedding party.
The History of Dui Menre The symbolic of dui menre or panaik is symbolic for the people of South Sulawesi, especially for the Bugis tribe.
20 The history of dui menre is during the kingdom of Bone and Gowa Tallo.
Gowa Regency is the core area of the Gowa kingdom which is known in history, in the XVII century, the Gowa kingdom reached its peak of glory under the reign of Sultan Muhammad Said Tumenangari Ball' Pangkana.
At that time, the kingdom of Gowa held hegemony and supremacy in the South Sulawesi area, even in the eastern part of Indonesia in general.
When a man wants to propose to a woman with a background from the kingdom or a descendant of the king, he must bring a gift that shows their ability to provide welfare and comfort for his wife and children in the future.
The man has raised the status and the contents of the gift were the dui menre which became a mandatory and absolute requirement.
Then, dui menre were developed for the lower status in case of a man want to marry a girl from the Bugis ethnic community.
Their assumption of high dui menre aims to assess the seriousness of men who want to marry their daughters.
Dui menre in the Bugis tradition is money given by the prospective groom to the prospective bride as an appreciation and reality of respect for social norms and strata.
For local men or those who also come from the Bugis Tribe, fulfilling the amount of dui menre is seen as siri', so the woman of love is a motivation to fulfill the dui menre as a symbol of sincerity to propose to the girl.
The complexity of marriage culture in South Sulawesi society is the values that are always considered in marriage, such as social status, economy, and cultural values of each male and female family.
In South Sulawesi, a unique phenomenon in weddings is dui menre, or by the local community called dui panai.
Nashirul Haq Marling.
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Andi Aminah Riski.
Ridwan Melay, and Bunari.
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The decision-making of the amount dui menre is sometimes influenced by the decisions of the female family .
ather's brother or mother's brothe.
There is also dui menre which the man cannot accomplish to the This makes the couple who have loved each other take actions outside the Bugis tradition, namely elopement .
Tens of millions and even hundreds of millions are commonplace.
Moreover, if the prospective bride is a descendant of nobility who has customary titles such as Karaeng.
Andi.
Opu.
Puang, and Petta or the education level of the prospective bride is S1.
S2, civil servant, already Hajj, and others.
The conditions make the high of dui The higher the nominal dui menre, the higher the self-image of the bride's family in the eyes of the community.
The characteristic of marriage in the Bugis tribe is the various amount of dui Noted that dui menre is not included in the dowry, given by the prospective groom to the prospective bride.
But, dui menre and dowry are two things the requirement that must be fulfilled to marry Bugis women.
If viewed based on reality, the meaning of dui menre has shifted from its real Dui menre has become an arena for prestige or showing off wealth.
Not infrequently, the prospective groom even has to go into debt to fulfill the request for the dui menre.
Stages of Dui Menre Practice First, the male family sends envoys to the female family to discuss the nominal amount of the dui menre.
Commonly, the tomatoa .
lderly perso.
plays as the envoy.
Second, after the envoy from the male family arrived at the destination house, then the female family sent an elder to meet the male family.
After the gathering, the woman's family mentions the amount of dui menre.
If the prospective husband's family agrees, then the process is complete.
But, when it feels too expensive, then there is a bargain on the amount between the two parties until reaching an agreement.
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Fourth, the male family comes to the female family's house at the agreed time to give the dui menre.
Fifth, after the dui menre, is handed over, then discuss the dowry.
The dowry is not as complicated as the dui menre process.
The dowry generally depends on the ability of the prospective husband, which will mention at the time directly.
In Bugis marriages in the current era, the dowry is generally not in the form of money but changes to goods, such as land, houses, and jewelry.
The differences between Dowry (Mah.
and Dui Menre In the traditional Bugis marriage, dowry and dui menre are inseparable because these two things have the same position in terms of obligations that must be fulfilled.
Although, in this case, the dui menre has more attention and is considered a requirement that determines the marriage process so that the amount of the dui menre is higher than the dowry.
The amount of dui menre may reach hundreds of millions of rupiah as it is influenced by several factors as mentioned in the previous section.
On the other hand, the dowry does not become a problem, so the nominal amount depends on the husband, which is usually in the form of goods, such as land, a house, or a set of jewelry.
This can be seen when the marriage contract procession only mentions a small amount of In simple terms, these two terms do have the same meaning, namely the However, viewed from the background history, the meaning of the two terms is different.
Dowry is an obligation in the Islamic tradition, while dui menre is an obligation according to the customs of the local community.
The Philosophical Meaning Behind the Dui Menre Traditional and religious leaders said that the philosophical meaning of the dowry and dui menre was a representation of the cultural principles (Sipakatau.
Sipakalebbi.
Sipaking.
that were firmly held by the Bugis people.
The meaning of the three Lestari.
Moh Ikbal.
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Sipakatau is an expression of humanizing humans, namely, everyone must understand their position, and must know themselves which will create a harmonious life.
There are no demeaning, sneering, or other things that hurt, and so on.
Sipakalebbi is a human trait that always wants to be appreciated.
So, this trait is a form of appreciation where the trait can see the good side of others and speak good While sipakainge is reminding each other related to solidarity and advising each other not to let someone get caught up in negative things.
The Practice of Dui Menre in Bugis Marriages in Bone Regency Categorically, the process of human life may be grouped into three processes, birth, marriage, and death.
The three processes of life are always interesting to discuss from various aspects.
Among the three processes, the case of marriage always demands special attention, especially in discussing, reviewing, and analyzing, because marriage is a monument of life that must be carried out based on culture, religion, and applicable laws and regulations.
In addition, it has a very important aspect in building human life in society.
Marriage, according to customary law, is related to family, community, dignity, and personal matters.
Unlike the case with marriage in modern Western society which is only the business of those who are married.
28 The traditional marriage in the Bugis tribe called appabotingeng is a very sacred ritual where this ritual must be carried out by everyone .
However, before the appabotingeng procession, the prospective groom must go through several stages, such as assuro.
Assuro is the process of proposing from the family of the prospective groom to the prospective bride, as well as determining the agreement of the dui menre which is an obligation that must be No dui menre means no marriage.
29 This habit has been in effect in the Bugis community for a long time and has been passed down from generation to generation until today.
Dowry and dui menre are gifts from a man to the woman, in the form of money or goods, played as one of the conditions for marriage.
The amount of dui menre is a final Andi Najmuddin (Tokoh Ada.
Wawancara, .
Mei 2.
Latif.
Fikih Perkawinan Bugis Tellumpoccoe.
Latif.
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According to customary provisions, the amount varies according to the level of social status or a person's social status symbol.
30 Tens of millions, and even hundreds of millions become a normal nominal, especially if the prospective bride is a bachelor's degree, or master's degree, civil servant, is already on Hajj, and others.
Then, the dui menre will be tens or even hundreds of millions.
The higher the nominal dui menre, the higher the self-image of the bride's family in the eyes of the community.
Behind the customary rules of the amount of dowry and dui menre given based on the social strata of the bride, it has certain purposes or values as mentioned in the previous section, especially in Bugis society, namely.
the existence of siri', sipakalebbi and sipakingeng culture.
Although siriAo has a broad meaning, if associated with the dui menre, namely a man who is knowledgeable who certainly has faith and piety, it is not appropriate to give dui menre in an inappropriate or even very minimal amount because it will tarnish the siri' of both parties.
Islam as a religion of rahmatan lil alamin does not like the determination of the dowry which become burdensome for the men who will get married.
Likewise, dui menre is recommended to be not burdensome for those who have a holy intention to get Marriage as a sunnah of the Prophet should be carried out with simplicity and not excessive so that there is no extravagance in it.
In Islamic law, the principle of prioritizing convenience in all matters is known.
Especially in matters of marriage, this principle is highly emphasized.
The dowry and dui menre are inseparable because these two things have the same position in terms of obligations that must be fulfilled.
Although, in this case, the dui menre has more attention and is considered a requirement that determines the marriage process so that the amount of the dui menre is higher than the dowry.
It is usually for some people to require dui menre based on the sosial status.
In Islam, the number of dui menre ideally should not be determined or consider several factors to determine the high or low amount of dui menre.
The important thing Lamallongeng.
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Interview, .
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The dui menre is not a standard, but a collective agreement, commonly referred to as spending money is a custom, not a religious teaching.
In religion, it is called a dowry that never annuls a marriage because the dowry does not say one hundred million and so on, but anything can be used as a dowry as long as it is valuable.
Giving dui menre in Bugis traditional marriages is the giving of a sum of money to finance the wedding party.
This practice follows the Islam teaching, called walimah.
Walimah is a form of gratitude after the marriage contract is held with a banquet for guests, relatives, and families.
However, in Islam, doing something, like walimah is also forbidden exaggerate.
35 Rasulullah SAW said to 'Abdurrahman bin 'Auf when he reported that he was married .
n Arabic, awlim walau bisyati.
"Make walimah even if only by cooking a goat.
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Integration of Tradition and Sharia: Dowry and Dui Menre in the Marriage of the Bugis Community in Bone Regency Islam teaches people who marry to make walimah, but there is no minimum or maximum form in the walimah.
This certainly gives a signal to all that walimah is held according to the ability of the people who marry, with a note that there is no extravagance and attitude of arrogance and pride.
As Rasulullah Saw .
he Messenger of Alla.
Acaa A aEaO a e OA A EOA.
A IO aOON OaacaOe OI OI eI aO seOA ac AaeOaaEa EIOA Meaning: "Rasulullah Saw held walimah for some of his wives with two muds of Ay (Narrated by Bukhar.
The hadith shows that Walimah can be held with any food, according to ability.
This is a practice by the Prophet SAW that the differences in walimah do not distinguish or exaggerate one from the other.
But it is solely adapted to the conditions when it is difficult or rich.
Today, walimah is interpreted as a wedding party.
This is related to the amount of dui menre to finance the wedding party.
Muhammad Amir ( Ketua MUI Kabupaten Bon.
Interview, .
May 2.
Muslihin Sultan (Tokoh Adat Kabupaten Bon.
Interview, .
May 2.
Muhammad bin Ismail Al-Bukhari.
Shahih Bukhari (Beirut: Dar Al-Kutub Al-Ilmiyyah, 2.
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The reason is the giving of dui menre is a form of wata'awanu al al-birri .
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The gift is very helpful for the family of the woman in terms of making a wedding party.
However, the dui menre practice also sometimes contradicts Islamic teachings when it requires in high amount, so that becomes a burden for men who are poor or in poverty condition.
It aims to avoid the Kolaka.
Kolaka referred to a woman who must be willing to let go of her love for another woman as this man once proposed to her.
But, because the dui menre was too high, the men felt objected and, in the end, their marriage proposal was canceled.
Customs and habits always change and vary according to changing times and The reality that exists in society runs continuously following the benefit of humans as the changing social phenomena.
Therefore, the human benefit is the basis of every kind of law.
So, it is natural when there is a change in law due to changes in times and circumstances, as well as the influence of the symptoms in society.
Before the Prophet Muhammad was sent, customs and traditions have been widely applied to people in various parts of the world.
It is built by values that are considered good by the community, which are then created, understood, agreed upon, and carried out based on awareness.
However, some values sometimes do not follow Islamic teachings, but others follow Islamic teachings.
Customs may use as a source of Islamic law when it meets the requirements.
Following the fiqh rules:
AuII E AuI AEA Meaning: "Customs are considered legal standards when they are generally accepted, if they deviate, then they cannot be used as one of the legal standards.
" 39
Then al-'adat muuakkamah,40 custom, and tradition can be accepted and become law when it becomes an agreement.
Islamic law recognizes custom as a source of law because it is aware of the fact that custom has played an important role in regulating social relations among community members.
Custom is an order that is agreed upon by AuTragis! Gara-Gara Minta Mahar Terlalu Besar.
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Agung Setiyawan.
AuBudaya Lokal Dalam Perspektif Agama: Legitimasi Hukum Adat (AoUr.
Dalam Islam,Ay Esensia 13, no.
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Jamal MaAomur Asmani.
Mengembangkan Fikih Sosial KH.
MA.
Sahal Mahfudh (Elaborasi Lima Ciri Utam.
(Jakarta: Media Konputindo, 2.
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But, it is still obeyed by the community because it is felt following their legal awareness.
The term and condition of dui menre is indeed explained in local customs.
However, the paradigm of some people has shifted.
Several community groups state to the male family about the amount of dui menre not to be forced, but dependent on In ancient times, it is certain things.
If the maleAos family could not able to fulfill it, then a conversation about the marriage is stopped.
As the public's insight has become more open, the amount of dui menre is very varied.
It should not be forced and depends on ability.
There are five agreed sharia laws, namely, wajib .
, uaram .
, makruh, permissible, and sunnah.
Wajib means a recommendation to do something The rule, do it and get a reward.
In contrast, when it does not do it, will get a Sunnah means a recommendation to do something uncertain.
The rule, do it and get a reward.
But, if do not do it, it is not a sin.
Mubah means, might be done and might be If it is abandoned, there is no reward or punishment.
Makruh is an uncertain term to leave certain actions - do it, it is okay, but if leave it will get a reward.
And, uaram is a definite term for leaving something.
If it is done by a mukallaf, it will get a sin, but if left will get a reward.
Based on the previous description, the condition of dui menre in Bone Regency cannot be abandoned and has become a tradition for generations in the community.
The dui menre in the community is not regulated in writing.
Dui menre is a general tradition, in the sense that it applies to every one of the Bugis tribe, especially in Bone Regency.
Although the dui menre tradition is not explicitly regulated in Islamic law, the dui menre is a tradition that must be carried out in the community.
And, as long as this does not conflict with faith and sharia, it is allowed.
he article assumes that the law of dui menre is mubah .
when it is used as a tool to help each other to relieve the woman's family to carry to the wedding Because there are rules in Islamic law, the law rotates according to conditions.
Dui menre is a general tradition, in the sense that it applies to every one of the Bugis tribe, especially in Bone regency.
The dowry and dui menre in Bugis customary marriages are inseparable so the integration is, dui menre as a pre-marital condition that must be fulfilled in the context https://e-journal.
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There is no prohibition in Islam as long as there is an agreement between the two parties.
Meanwhile, the dowry is also a mandatory requirement and is always carried out in the marriage of the people in the Bone Regency.
Therefore, the dowry and dui menre in the marriage of the Bone community follow tradition and sharia.
Conclusion Dowry and dui menre are mandatory gifts from the prospective husband to his prospective wife.
Dui menre is a tradition that has been carried out for generations in the Bone regency.
The dui menre follow the sharia as a form of respect and assistance to the prospective wife in the implementation of marriage.
Meanwhile, the dowry is always carried out because Islamic law has become part of the living law for the people of the Bone regency.
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